Tinjauan Hukum Islam Terhadap Tradisi Ngemblok Dalam Prosesi Lamaran
(Studi Kasus Desa Katerban, Tuban)
DOI:
https://doi.org/10.55606/birokrasi.v1i3.563Keywords:
Engagement, Ngemblok Tradition, Islamic Law, 'UrfAbstract
Sub-District of Senori, Tuban Regency. Generally, the proposal (marriage proposal) that takes place in the village involves men proposing to women, different from that of the village where a woman takes the role as the proposer. This marriage proposal activity conducted by women is called "ngemblok". The tradition of ngemblok is one of the cultural heritages passed down from ancestors. The research method used by the researcher is qualitative research with field research as its type. The results of this research show that: 1) the implementation of the ngemblok tradition in the marriage proposal process in Katerban Village, Senori Sub-District, Tuban Regency, consists of several stages starting from bringing offerings such as tape (fermented cassava), bugisan (a type of traditional cake), rengginang (rice crackers), jenang (a type of sweet food), and mandatory alu-alu (traditional grinding stone) as symbolic food. 2) The Islamic legal perspective on the ngemblok tradition states that there is no prohibition for women as proposers. Through the approach of the 'urf theory
References
Adhari, Endi Zelviean, Irni Sri Cahyanti, dkk. 2021. Struktur Konseptual Ushul Fiqh, Bandung: Widina Bhakti Persada Bandung, 2021.
Afandi, Firman. 2018. Saat Tradisi Menjadi Dalil, Jakarta: Rumah Fiqih Publishing, 2018.
Basir, Abd. 2022. Hukum Islam Tentang Perkawinan Dan Waris, Sulawsi Selatan: Tohar Media.
Basri, Rusdaya. 2019. Fiqih Munakahat 4 Madzab Dan Kebijakan Pemerintah, Sulawesi Selatan: CV Kafaah Learning Center, 2019.
Bratasiswara, Hermanto. 2000. Adat Tata Cara Jawa Volume 2, Bandung: Yayasan Suryasumingrat, 2000.
Daud, Fathonah K, dkk. 2022. “Living Law Dalam Khitbah dan Lamaran Prespektif Sosiologi Hukum”, Jurnal Pengembangan Pemikiran dan Kebudayaan, Vol 16, No 1.
Djamal. 2015. Paradigma Penelitian Kualitatif, Yogyakarta: Pustaka Pelajar.
Faidah, Anisa Nur. 2022. “Tinjaun Hukum Islam Terhadap Tradisi Perempuan Meminang Laki-laki di Kecamatan Modo Kabupaten Lamongan”, Jurnal Hukum Keluarga, Vol 5, No 1
Ghazaly, Abd. 2006. Rahman, Fiqih Munakahat, Jakarta: Kencana 2006.
Hadiati, Ning, 2006. Tata Cara Pelaksanaan Lamaran Dalam Upacara Pengantin Tradisi Jawa Di Surakarta”, Jurnal Ilmu dan Seni, Vol, 4 No. 2.
Hasan, Mustofa. 2011. Pengantar Hukum Keluarga, Bandung: CV Pustaka Setia.
Iryani, Eva. 2017 “Hukum Islam, Demokrasi Dan Hak Asasi Manusia” Jurnal Ilmiah, Vol.17, No. 2.
Ja’far, Kumedi. 2021. Hukum Perkawinan Islam Di Indonesia, Bandar Lampung: Arjasa Pratama, 2021.
Latipah, Eva Latipah. 2016. Metodologi Penelitian Psikologi Pendidikan, Yogyakarta: CV Budi Utama, 2016.
Listyana, Rahmaul. 2015. Persepsi Dan Sikap Masyarakat Terhadap Penanggalan Jawa Dalam Penentuan Waktu Pernikahan(Studi Kasus Desa Jonggrang Kecamatan Barat Kabupaten Magetan Tahun 2011, Jurnal Agastya, Vol 2, No 1, 2015.
Raco, J.R. 2010. Metode Penelitian Kualitatif Jenis, Karakteristik, dan Keunggulannya, Jakarta: PT. Grasindo.
Saebani, Beni Ahmad. 2011. Hukum Perdata Islam Indonesia, Bandung: CV Pustaka Setia.
Sohari Sahrani dan Tihami. 2014. Fiqih Munakahat, Cet Ke-4, Jakarta: PT Rajagrafindo Persada.
Sucipto. 2015.‘Urf Sebagai Metode Dan Sumber Penemuan Hukum Islam” Jurnal ASAS, Vol. 7, No. 1.
Sugiono. 2012. Metode Penelitian Kuantitatif, Kualitatif dan RND, Bandung: Alfabeta, 2012.
Suwandi & Basrowi. 2008. Memahami Penelitian Kualitatif, Jakarta: PT Rineka Cipta.
Syarifuddin, Amir. 2017. Hukum Perkawinan Islam di Indonesia, Jakarta: Kencana Prenada Media Group.
Tanzeh, Ahmad. 2011. Metodologi Penelitian Praktis, Yogyakarta: Teras,.
Zuhri, Ahmad. 2021. “Konsep Khitbah (Peminangan) Dalam Prespektif Hadist Rasulullah SAW”, Jurnal Ilmu Kewahyuan, Vol 4, No 2.
